"Mel, most adults are just 8-year-old children inside of big bodies...Emotional maturity isn't something you're born with or just happens. It is a skill that takes practice and a desire to learn." — Mel Robbins
I am not comfortable with conflict.
Some people might thrive on confrontation, but I used to either freeze or flee.
My journey toward emotional maturity has been both challenging and beautiful - filled with tears, insights, and gradual transformation.
What I've discovered is profound: as I've learned to create peace within myself, peace naturally flows into my relationships.
As I've practiced healing my own heart, I've become better at holding space for others' healing too.
While I'm still growing (aren't we all?), focusing on living as unconditional LOVE has transformed my life in ways I never imagined possible. The quality of life lived this way feels like coming home to yourself.
💫 THE WHISPERS BEFORE THE SHOUTS 💫
• The moment you see a conflict emerging, and you choose peace instead
• The freedom that comes from being slow to anger and quick to be curious
• The joy of having the tools to manage your own emotions successfully
🌱 WISDOM SEED 🌱
What if emotional maturity isn't about avoiding conflict, but about choosing how you respond to it?
🌿 YOUR KINGDOM GARDEN PRACTICE 🌿
When you feel conflict arising:
• Take a deep breath and pause before responding
• Ask yourself: "How can I see this situation from LOVE's perspective?"
• Trust that curiosity about others' viewpoints leads to win/win solutions
Growing together in wisdom,
Kristin
P.S. Share in the comments below: When has choosing peace over conflict led to unexpected understanding? Your story might help others find their path to emotional maturity.
thank you for this !
this is me:
I am not comfortable with conflict.
And I have been learning what you share about stepping back, taking a deep breathe and then considering the right response.
And it's so much more powerful!
thanks again