Are you a brilliant, accomplished woman who's achieved everything you thought you wanted—but still feels trapped by yesterday's story?
Do you struggle with the secret fear that "you're only as good as your last success" no matter how many wins you accumulate?
🔍 Here's what's really happening:
The Cultural Hijackers have convinced you that "the past equals the future." What you've done before is all you can do. What happened to you defines what's possible for you.
The Dominance Code keeps you unconsciously recreating the past in the present instead of accessing the creative power of future visioning.
You're living the "I thought I'd be further along" trap—but here's what most transformation work misses about why it's so hard for accomplished women to break free.
Most transformation work doesn't address the deeper hijacking pattern: Your navigation system was programmed in childhood to survive the Dominance Code, not thrive in your authentic power.
🌱 What if the real issue isn't your past, but the Cultural Hijackers using your past to steal your future?
Meet Cora (not her real name), COO of a Fortune 500 company. Harvard MBA. Corner office. Every success indicator imaginable.
But Cora lives with a secret terror: "One day they'll find out I'm not who they think I am." Her mantra: "You're only as good as your last rodeo." Despite every achievement, she works 14-16 hour days driven by "This isn't enough."
Maybe you recognize your own hijacked patterns in Cora's story?
When my husband died in 2017, my future died with him. We had shared dreams that could never be accomplished solo. My new story became: "My best days are behind me. I'll never be happy again."
I was living the "past equals future" hijacking until grief taught me that the LOVE I shared with my husband was still alive. This insight gave me tremendous strength. Yes, I was missing his the comfort of his physical presnce…but I was not without his love. Only then could I turn toward tomorrow and ask:
"What's next for me?"
That question changed everything.
🌟 Reframe. Reclaim. Redeem: Your Sacred Navigation Journey
Here's what this looks like in practice:
🔄 REFRAME: Your past stories from "proof of limitation" to "survival adaptations that served their purpose"
💫 RECLAIM: Your navigation system from Cultural Hijacker programming back to authentic future-self guidance
✨ REDEEM: Your dreams by letting your future authentic self pull you forward instead of allowing the stories of your past to hold you back
If you're ready to move through this journey from hijacked past to authentic future...
💕 The Sacred Truth About Your Hijacked Past
Here's what most healing work misses: You were never those hijacked identities. But believing you were had survival value within your childhood circumstances.
From birth to age 7, when we're most vulnerable, we adapted to caregivers who were themselves raised in Dominance Code culture. They inadvertently trained us into the hijackers' lies without realizing what they were doing.
As children, we didn't have the power to follow our authentic self's guidance. So we adapted to survive.
The hardest part isn't healing the past—it's waking up from past nightmares and realizing we can let them go. As adults, we can use the present to reshape the meaning of past circumstances and let our future authentic self pull us forward.
This sacred work of coming home to yourself requires support...
✨ What Changes When You Anchor Into Your Future Self
Maria Shriver shows us what this reframe looks like. In her new book, “I Am Maria” she talks about the terrible humiliation "in the public square" when he husband’s affair with their nanny, and the son who was the product of that affair became public knowledge. She found herself sitting on the floor of a hotel room, her life in tatters. But today she has created her own platform based on her own body of work, and she uses it to bring awareness to causes close to her heart.
When Cultural Hijackers transform to High Level operating:
Past-Focused Fear → Future-Called Authenticity: Your dreams pull you forward instead of your wounds holding you back
"Past Equals Future" → Creative Possibility: What happened to you no longer defines what's available to you
Comparison Trap → Your Own Path: When fueled by your authentic self, there's no need to measure against others
Survival Adaptations → Thriving Gifts: The strengths you developed can serve your future instead of imprisoning you
Hijacked Identity → Authentic Power: You remember who you really are beneath all the protective programming
🛠️ Your Emergency Future-Self Anchor Tool
When you notice a "bad" feeling signaling you're in a disempowered state:
STOP - Notice you have fallen into a hijacker trap. Identify how the past is defining your present moment
BREATHE - Three conscious breaths to reset your nervous system
REFRAME - "The past does not equal my future"
RECLAIM - "What would my future authentic self do right now?"
REDEEM - Take one small step toward that vision
🔮 Soul Tech Tool: Past-Story Liberation Prompt (Free)
✨ Copy this into ChatGPT, Claude, or your AI assistant:
*"I'm exploring how my past stories might be hijacking my future possibilities. I notice I get a 'bad feeling' or sense of disempowerment when I think about certain dreams, which suggests hijacker programming is active.
Current situation: [Describe a dream or goal that gives you a bad/heavy feeling when you consider pursuing it] The feeling I get when I think about this: [anxious, defeated, small, not-good-enough, etc.]
Help me identify:
What past story am I using to justify why this isn't possible for me?
How is this 'bad feeling' actually my nervous system detecting hijacker programming?
What would I attempt if I trusted that feeling was hijacker fear, not authentic guidance?
Which Cultural Hijacker voice is strongest when I think about this dream?
What would my future authentic self - who feels empowered about this goal - tell me right now?
One small step I could take this week that would shift me from disempowered to empowered feeling.
Be gentle but honest in helping me see where yesterday's limitations are stealing tomorrow's possibilities, and help me recognize my body's wisdom in detecting when I'm hijacked."*
✨ Save this to your notes app and try it this week. Let me know what you discover.
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Feminine Power Circle Investors aren't buying content.
They are investing in the woman they are here to become.
They are investing in:
🌿 Future-called authenticity over past-focused fear
🌸 Creative possibility over "the past equals future" programming
🔥 Sacred ambition over hijacked limitations
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Paid members are not dabbling in self-help. They are sovereign women devoted to:
💎 Authentic power over performed success
💎 Future visioning over past rumination
💎 Win/win creation over dominance code competition
They don't need permission to dream bigger.
They need a space that supports the courageous navigation from hijacked past to authentic future.
💎 Advanced Soul Tech: Complete Past-to-Future Liberation Plan (Paid Subscribers Only)
For those ready to do the sacred work of complete navigation reclamation, copy this into your AI assistant:
*"I recognize my navigation system has been hijacked by past programming. When I think about my biggest dreams, I get specific 'bad feelings' that signal disempowerment - I now understand this is my nervous system detecting hijacker activation. I'm ready to anchor into my future authentic self but need a systematic approach.
My strongest past-limiting story is: [specific story about why you can't/shouldn't pursue your dream] The 'bad feeling' this creates: [describe the physical/emotional sensation] The Cultural Hijacker most active in this area: [Approval/Confidence/Expectations/Perfection/Power/Failure/Leadership] My authentic future vision (what would feel empowering): [describe your biggest dream and how it would FEEL to live it] What I'm afraid of losing if I step into this future: [security, identity, approval, etc.]
Create for me:
A systematic plan to recognize my specific 'bad feeling' signatures when each Cultural Hijacker activates
Daily practices to anchor into my empowered future self rather than disempowered past identity
Real-time body awareness techniques to catch hijacker activation before it derails me
Scripts to redirect from 'bad feeling' hijacker programming to future-self empowerment
A 90-day experiment to test living as my empowered future self
Somatic practices that help my nervous system feel safe with my authentic dreams
Warning signs I'm slipping back into past-story disempowerment
Ways to use my current achievements as bridges to feeling empowered about bigger goals
Specific affirmations that counter my unique 'bad feeling' hijacker patterns
An accountability framework for choosing empowered future-self over disempowered hijacker
Help me see this as sacred navigation reclamation where my body's wisdom guides me home to the empowered woman I'm becoming."*
🌸 For those ready to do the sacred work of coming home to themselves...
I'm opening 3 Sacred Partnership spots for women ready to transform from past-focused hijacking to future-called authenticity.
The Dominance Code wants you comparing, competing, and staying small in yesterday's story. But we live in a sea of this programming until we're aware enough to see there's another playing field available.
Joining a community of women dedicated to living on the Abundance Code—where we don't stop until we create win/win solutions—makes this transformation so much easier. When you're surrounded by sisters creating win/win/win solutions, you finally see what's possible for your own life.
Ready to reframe your past, reclaim your power, and redeem your future? Comment "FUTURE" and let's explore if you're called to do this deeper work together.
Your authentic self is already there in your future, waiting to guide you home. 💕
P.S. The hardest part is waking up from past nightmares and realizing we can let them go. But when enough women anchor into their future authentic selves, we create the tipping point where LOVE-based consciousness becomes natural for all.
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